School Leadership

If SEL Is So Important, Why Can’t It Fit Into a Regular School Day?

With student’s mental health struggles on the rise, students are depending on teachers to not just educate them on math or English, but anxiety management too, especially because research shows that students are more likely to seek counseling when services are available in schools.  Counselors, social workers and psychologists are doing their best to assist all students, but with a 500:1 national average ratio respectively, much of the job also falls onto the educators. 

For the first time in history, 7-year-olds are being seen in emergency departments for suicide attempts and self-harming behaviors.  The mental health crisis is here and social and emotional learning, SEL, can be just the tool to help.  None of you are alone, even though it may feel like you are.

Social and emotional learning is a methodology that helps students comprehend their emotions and exhibit empathy for others.  These teachings help students develop responsible decision making skills as well as build positive relationships with themselves and with others.  SEL programs range from character education topics such as friendships all the way to depression, self-esteem and suicide prevention. 

Not all SEL is created equal and time spent in a meaningful program is critical.  The challenge of fitting this into each school day can be mitigated by adding a period into each week.  If SEL were to have a dedicated time and place, students would have the ability to receive in-depth and intentional instruction.  With this time and privacy, students would have access to deeper thinking about future goals, motivation and personal mental health.  

Some schools say that they have their mental health teachings in check, however the majority are hanging on by a thread.  “Research clearly demonstrates the significant role of SEL in promoting the healthy development and academic achievement of all students. It also shows that SEL reduces problem behaviors and emotional distress that interfere with the learning and development of some students. Research also indicates that SEL programming significantly raises test scores while it lowers levels of emotional distress; disruptive behavior; and alcohol, tobacco, or other drug use.”   

Why is a subject that is so important, so difficult to implement into a school’s curriculum? 

There is a rising movement to embed SEL into core curricula.  Tom Joad from “The Grapes of Wrath” can be a prime talking point for conversations about resilience and forward thinking.  Geometry can be a concept akin to the importance of balance and middle ground.  These conversations are a good start, but what do we do when a student doesn’t want to speak out loud in front of their peers?  What if a student is suffering from more than a lack of “grit?”  Research shows that approximately 49% of K-12 students may face a mental health condition during their time in school.  This means that while the Tom Joad conversation is a nice one to have, it’s not getting to the core of what the 49% of students facing mental health conditions need to address. 

In a recent conversation with former United States Representative, Patrick Kennedy, he referenced a metaphor that he recently heard in which mental health was referred to as “the license necessary to drive the brain.”

We don’t receive adequate driver’s education by throwing in snippets about traffic signals during social studies or by discussing turning out of a skid in the middle of Shakespeare.  No, we create a space for this crucial topic because our kids’ lives depend on it.  With half of the K-12 students suffering from some type of mental illness and the other 50% needing to understand how to drive their own brains, how is tying in this type of license adequate enough in snippets?

Until education reform changes the mandates of everyday learning, snippets are all many of our students will get.  If you are in a position to change this and can be the gatekeeper for your students, you have more influence than you may realize.  We at BASE exist so you don’t have to do the work.  

While 10,000 hours is the measure to become an expert at something, one hour per week or two thirty-minute sessions behind the screen can begin to help increase your students’ engagement, academic success and can truly be a meaningful life-saver. We can’t prepare children for everything, but we have an obligation to do our very best.  

9 Tips for Working with “Difficult” Populations

“Troubled”, “High Risk”, “Difficult”, these are just some of the names that we label our students. With displays of symptoms of underlying problems, we often see behavior that can involve aggression towards self or others, extreme “attention-seeking”, low self-esteem or disproportionately inflated sense of arrogance, substance use, general disrespect towards authority figures, and more.  Admittedly, these kids are not always the easiest to work with. It takes endless amounts of patience, training, experience, and compassion to work with many “at-risk” students. That said if you are in a leadership role (teacher, coach, counselor, etc.) you can be a role model and show behaviors they may have not been exposed to before. While it may seem obvious that as a leader you will display compassion, authenticity, and patience, these youth may have never seen an adult act in this way before. In addition, it can be difficult to dig deep and find your own stride as you roll with their behaviors.
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Understanding Suicide Contagion and How to Prevent It

Having a death by suicide in your school can be tragic for everyone in the community. But even more tragic is when that suicide instigates subsequent suicides. This heart wrenching and dangerous phenomenon is known as suicide contagion, and there are ways that schools and communities can help prevent it.


What is suicide contagion?


Suicide contagion is the exposure to suicide or suicidal behaviors within one’s family, one’s peer group, or through media reports of suicide. This exposure can result in an increase in suicide and suicidal behaviors. (US Department of Health and Human Services) After that first suicide happens, communities sometimes see an increase in suicides or suicidal behaviors.


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What is SEL?

SEL, or social and emotional learning, is essential, but its definition may not be easy to pinpoint. In the past, education centered around academic achievement – give students information and expect them to remember it. But times have changed. Our understanding of human beings has changed. And as a result, what we teach in school has, and still needs to, change. Enter Social Emotional Learning.

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5 Dangerous Relationships Students in your School Need to Know About

Friends mean a lot to the teens in your school. In fact, peer relationships are so important they are often referred to as the second family. And yet peer relationships can often be harmful in the life of a teen. Poor or dangerous relationships can lead to risky behavior, substance abuse, truancy, and worse. For teens, having the right friends can have a huge impact on where life leads. Continue Reading

5 Steps for Developing Protective Factors against Teen Suicide

Tylor blamed herself for everything wrong in her life and saw no hope for her future. She’d never been in trouble before, but she’d just gotten caught bringing marijuana to school and was suspended. As a result, she felt like everyone was disappointed in her, and she felt like she had irrevocably ruined all her dreams and plans for the future. She sat in suspension alone in her pain, seeing no way to recover. She blamed herself for everything wrong in her life. When she left school that day, she went into her basement and took her life. Protective factors could have made a difference in her story, and they can make a difference in your teens’ too.

Tylor’s story is not unique. Every day teenagers across the nation die by suicide, teens who should have lived and prospered, teens who deserved to be happy. Their deaths, these tragedies, impact families and communities forever. And whether anyone in your school has taken their life or not, you can be sure that suicide has had some impact on your teens one way or another. Continue Reading